5 Phrases We Call the Language of Love

Instructions for the Language of Love: 

1. Use when trying to face relationship conflict in the healthiest, most peaceful/loving way. 
2. Use when trying to communicate something difficult. 
3. Use when faced with a partner or child or human being you love whom has completely betrayed you or disappointed you. 
4. Use when you want to offer real love and empowerment to a partner, loved one, or child - instead of fear.
5. Use because it's who you want to be and not because you want someone to change; use it because it's what you want to offer this world. 
6. And use these words for yourself, too, if you find yourself in need of some love. The offering from me to you is here. XO

5 phrases:

"I see you."
I see your humanity. I see your suffering. I see your past. I see that you are hurting. I see that some sort of pain has brought you here. You are not defined by what happened or is happening to you. I see that you have worth regardless. I see the real you. 

"I trust you."
I know you will figure this out. You have everything you need to succeed. I'm not worried. You don't need to be perfect. I trust that even if you make a mistake in this moment, you'll do your best to learn from it. Even your mistakes will be valuable. You have a lifetime to learn and grow. I know that your life can get better and better.

"I believe in you."
I've seen your good side. I've seen what you are capable of. I know that you have a good heart. I know that you have good intentions. I know that you'll be able to get better and better at being you, at being whole, and at believing in your own worth as well. Your life will unfold in beautiful ways. Good things await you.

"You are going to figure this out."
Life may be difficult, but life is also full of beauty and potential. I know you'll be able to uncover more and more of that potential. Perhaps you've had a rough patch, but that is the human experience and nothing to worry about. Every single person faces rough patches of some kind, and you, too, can face it with every ounce of inner power that you have. This time may be challenging, but it will bring you more knowledge, more experience, morecapabilities, and more compassion. You are going to be better for it!

"It's ok to make mistakes. I still love you."
No matter what you've done, it doesn't change the fact that you have worth. I'm not going to judge you. You are worthy of my time, you are worthy of my respect, you are worthy of my love. Even if you disagree with me - even if you reject me - you are deserving of respect - just as every human being is deserving. There is nothing you could do that would change my desire to offer you love and offer you the best of myself.

HOW TO ATTRACT WOMEN: SEVEN EASY LESSONS

Every guy wants to be able to attract women. You're in a bar with your buddies, having a few drinks after work, and suddenly you spot a sexy vixen giving you the eye from across the room. You brush it off and keep schmoozing with your friends, but then you notice a second, very pronounced glance. You give yourself a quick pep talk, head over, and initiate a conversation with the woman.
The conversation starts off well; she seems interested and bubbly. You take the typical first encounter route, asking her where she works, where she’s from, and what she does for fun. Just when you’re starting to feel confident, she begins looking around the room and stops contributing to the conversation. You quickly steer the discussion to a new topic, hoping that it will end the uncomfortable silence that seems to be growing. But it doesn’t work. She takes a brief sip from her drink, excuses herself to go to the bathroom, and never returns.
If this happens to you on a regular basis, then this article is for you. Read on and find out how you can attract women and keep the conversation intriguing.

1. WOMEN DON’T WANT TO BE INTERVIEWED 

Instead of asking her of questions like “where are you from” and “what do you do for fun,” make a definitive statement or a cold read. For example, say “you're not from around here, are you?” or “you must be a lawyer.” This is a terrific method to prevent the conversation from turning into a boring interview. Try to practice this tactic the next time you're in a bar because it's a crucial behavioral component to attract women.

2. WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO HEALTHY MEN

Don't talk about how tired you are or that you had the flu a week ago. Instead, mention things that show good health. For example, tell her something funny that happened when you went for a run or while you were at the gym.

3. DON'T BRAG

It's great that you have a nice car and a great job, but don't tell her that directly. Although women are attracted to wealth, they are not attracted to men who brag about it. The reason behind this is that women can sense that a tendency to brag likely stems from low confidence. Instead of bragging, tell her an interesting story that allows her to decipher independently that you're successful.

4. WHEN YOU TALK TO A WOMAN, MAKE SURE TO HAVE A RELAXED BODY POSTURE 

Relax your shoulders and put your weight on one leg. Lean comfortably against a wall or the bar if possible. Most important of all, hold your drink to your side, not in front of you. Men have a tendency to hold their drinks firmly in front of their stomachs. This creates an artificial barrier between you and the woman and hinders your ability to attract her. If you can incorporate these suggestions, you will come across as a much more confident and desirable person.

5. TRY TO BE A LITTLE MYSTERIOUS

If she asks you questions, don't give her elaborate, detailed answers. Instead, provide her with clues about who you are and let her figure out the rest. This will intrigue her and prompt her to learn more about you.

6. WOMEN LOVE TO ROLE PLAY

Indulge her appetite for fantasy by making her your personal assistant and giving her a playful order. Or pretend that you are a loving couple and then break up with her when she says something that you don't like. Tease her and tell her that if she makes up for it, you might take her back.

7. UNDERSTAND HOW TO ATTRACT WOMEN FROM A HER PERSPECTIVE

Attraction for women works differently than it does for men. Once you understand how attraction works from a female perspective, you'll find it much easier to create attraction, and to avoid destroying it. 
Here's a video where I explain the secret of attraction and how attraction in women differs from attraction in men. 

How to Attract Any Girl

Want to know how to attract any girl?  It starts by getting the girl interested in you and curious about you.  With that foundation you can gradually build a lasting attraction with any woman.  As for how to spark that interest and curiosity; here are some tips that will help you do just that.
Project confidence
Confidence is the one irresistible trait you must have if you want to attract women.  And women can tell right away whether or not you’re confident just by looking at your body language.  For example, if you’re fidgeting or making yourself “small” in your environment, women will see you as lacking confidence.
So the first step in how to attract any girl is to adopt confident body language.  Keep your body movements calm and controlled.  Make yourself big.  Don’t be afraid to take up room and claim the space immediately around you.  If that’s difficult due to feeling nervous or uncomfortable, take slow, deep breaths while focusing on the sensations in your body (can you feel your feet?).  This will help you relax and allow that confident body language to come out naturally.
Get her laughing
Every girl wants a guy who can make her laugh.  And there’s no better time to prove you have that ability than at the beginning of the conversation.  Get a girl to smile early on and it’ll help her relax and feel comfortable talking to you.  All while sparking that interest and attraction.
One technique you can use to start a conversation and get a girl laughing is playful teasing.  This is particularly effective because most guys are too insecure to playfully tease a girl right off the bat.  By starting your conversations this way you show you’re not intimidated by attractive women.  You can get her laughing and show tremendous confidence at the same time.
Here are just two examples of how to start a conversation with playful teasing: (1) “You know you’d look cute in a purple Mohawk” (2) “Excuse me, I’m trying to have a guy’s night out and you totally ruined it.  You’re too damn cute”.  Lines like these can get a conversation started on a fun, playful note.
Make her win you over
Projecting confidence and making a girl laugh are common tips for how to attract any girl.  But there’s another tip that’s equally important that doesn’t get nearly as much discussion.  It’s called qualification.
Qualification is all about getting the woman to prove that she’s a cool, interesting girl. It shows you’re a guy with standards who doesn’t invest his time and attention in just any attractive girl.  When you actively filter women like this they see you as a high-value guy.  They will then put moreeffort into keeping your interest and attention.
After bantering with a girl you can start qualifying by asking questions like “So what’s your deal?” or “What are three things I wouldn’t know about you by looking?”  These questions are great because they’re open-ended and allow the girl to share as much information as she feels comfortable.  They also give you a great chance to get to know her.  You can then find out if she truly is a cool, interesting girl.
Create an emotional connection
In order to know how to attract any girl it’s important to know how to connect with any girl.  That is, how to build an emotional connection so she feels close to you, and you feel close to her.
One way to build that emotional connection with a girl is to use the “I” perspective when speaking.  Express your thoughts, opinions – and most importantly your emotions – directly.  For example, saying “I love Game of Thrones” gives her a glimpse into your emotional world.  But if you said “Game of Thrones is a great show” then that emotional component is taken out of the picture completely.   Talking about your personal experiences, rather than objective facts, is going to get her feeling more deeply connected to you.
Build sexual tension
No article on how to attract any girl would be complete without a tip on how to build sexual tension.  After all this is what keeps guys out of the friend-zone.
One of the most effective ways to build sexual tension with women is through touch.  Start touching the girl early on in your conversation by lightly tapping the back of your hand against her elbow.  If she’s okay with that contact, you can gradually move on to touch her for longer periods of time in more intimate areas (shoulder, back, thigh, face).
The key to knowing when you should touch more – or less – is to check for compliance.  If she allows you to touch her, or starts touching you in response, then you can take things a step further with your touch.  If however she recoils or moves away when you touch her, then give her space.  Build more comfort through banter and creating an emotional connection.  When she’s a bit more comfortable, try to build that sexual tension once again.
Be unattached to the outcome
One thing that is will help you tremendously when learning how to attract any woman is being unattached to the outcome.  That is, don’t get hung up on whether or not you get a phone number, a date, or even get the girl to like you.  Just enjoy the process of meeting women and focus on having fun.  If you’re not looking to get anything from your interactions with women then you’ll have no trouble being confident, fun, open, and sexual with women.
The best way to make this your natural way of being is to get lots of experience talking and flirting with women.  Make a point to talk to at least three women a day and practice the techniques mentioned in this article and elsewhere on the site.  The more experience you get the less you’ll care about each individual interaction.

HOW TO APPROACH WOMEN

Learning how to talk to women can seem like a daunting task.  We can simplify this whole process by dividing your time with a woman into sections including: approaching, transitioning, attracting, qualifying, and building comfort. This system described in love systems boot camps can be used to describe the emotional, physical, and logistical progression you must make in order to get the girl. Learning how to approach women, the first thing you need to do to start this process to eventually get the girl most guys are reluctant to do this and shy away from opportunities to converse by making up excuses like "she probably has a boyfriend," "she's not my type," or "she looks like a bitch." But these rationales are nonsense. What's really going on is one of two things:
  1. You don't know what to say to a girl.
  2. You're afraid of being rejected.
If you ask anyone in the pick up community about what to say to a girl, they'll tell you that the subject matter or "line" you begin with doesn't really matter. What does matter is the way you speak and your body language.
When you approach a girl for the first time, she will form an instant impression of you in a split second. If that impression is good, you'll get a positive response almost no matter what you say. If that impression is bad, she'll likely be cold and disinterested, signaling her lack of enthusiasm by giving very short answers, looking away from you, or even ignoring you.
So how can we make sure this first impression is a good one?
First, take on a confident body language and ensure you have a command presence when you make your initial approach. Keep your head up, relax your shoulders, hold your drink to the side (not in front of you like most guys do) and walk slowly. Imagine you are the owner of the venue and you're walking over to ask a customer if she's enjoying your bar. You know how people say "that guy acts like he owns the place or something?" That guy should be you. This is a very important aspect of learning how to approach women. If you project the right image through positive body language, you'll find that instantaneous rejection will be very rare. Women will at least converse with you, even if they don’t end up hopping in your bed.
The next critical thing to remember is that rejection is no big deal. There is no reason to be afraid of it. Why? Because she is not rejecting you as a person. She doesn’t know you, your family, your friends, your background, etc. She is only rejecting your method of approach. Essentially, she is giving you feedback on your body language, telling you that some visual cue from your body and actions is not appealing. Take that criticism and think about what you did wrong. How did you feel walking over? Were you completely relaxed? Were you nervous? The only way to learn is to practice, make mistakes, analyze, and repeat.
If you want to learn how to approach women, you need to approach them regularly. Before going out, set the goal of approaching 4 girls before you are allowed to go home. If you go out three times a week, you'll do 12 approaches a week. After two months, you'll have approached close to 100 girls! That's probably more approaches than most guys have done in their entire lives!
If you truly want to better your abilities and get the girl, Love Systems recommends that you download the full length free report titled "Top 10 mistakes men make with women." You can get it immediately and confidentially delivered to your inbox. Just enter your email in the box at the top of the page and let the games begin!

Love Tips for Men - How to Get a Woman to Fall in Love With You Fast

There is that point where you are seeing a woman and you come to the conclusion that you really like her a lot, so much so, that you might even consider saying that you love her. However, that doesn't always mean that she is going to be at that point where she feels the same way about you. While you might feel like you are head over heels for her, you probably want to be sure that she is on the same page before you consider the idea of saying it to her.
Here are some tips that will help you make her fall in love with you fast so that you can be kind of sure that she is on the same page as you are:
A lot of guys make the mistake of coming across in a phony way when they are trying to make a woman fall for them. They'll agree with her on literally everything that she says, they will act like they like all of the same things that she does, etc. You don't want to do that, because if it were to work, she'd be falling for a fake you and not the real you. Plus, most women are pretty good at figuring that out and if they do - they are not going to be thinking of you in the way that you want them to be thinking of you if they conclude that you are acting kind of phony.
The deeper the connection goes, the more likely it is that she is going to feel like she is falling in love with you. That's what you really want, so you might as well make a conscious effort into making her feel that kind of a connection with you.
There are physical aspects that you just cannot ignore if you are going to make a woman fall in love with you. You need her to feel like there is a lot of real chemistry on a physical level. If you don't, she might fall for you but not in the way that you want her to. She might fall in love with you as more of a friend and not as a romantic partner.

He Hasn't Said I Love You Yet?

There's a terribly special moment in each romantic relationship that a girl holds her breath for. It's once your man tells you he loves you. Ideally, he'll say it 1st and it'll happen in a very wondrous, unforgettable place. you will bear in mind everything concerning the second those fateful words left his lips. The shirt he was sporting, however his hair was titled and what his cologne smelled like can all become necessary nuances of the instant after you each knew that you simply were reaching to be life partners. It all thereforeunds so dreamy and ideal, does not it? From expertise, most folks understand that it generally does not go that manner. He'll sometimes speak the words at the foremost inconvenient time like once we're stopped at a red lightweight or throughout a field game. despite the circumstances of the delivery, the words area unit still important and relationship dynamical. Sadly, not all men reach a degree wherever they feel comfy sharing those words. If it's currently been months or maybe years and he hasn't aforesaid i like you nonetheless, what specifically will that mean for you and your future with him? Never Forget however totally different You and Your Man area unit I've usually detected ladies say that they need men were additional like them. In some ways that, that will be wondrous, however primarily we have a tendency to love men as a result of they're men. Your man does not method his feelings identical manner you are doing. If he falls infatuated with you initially sight, likelihood is superb that he isn't reaching to share that news with you till months into the link. identical is true of the person UN agency falls infatuated along with his girl at a slow pace. he isn't reaching to provide you with updates concerning what he is feeling. Men simply are not wired that manner. Sharing deep and important feelings to a person makes him feel showing emotion vulnerable. it's extremely very like he is taking the armor off his heart and he is golf shot himself within the line of fireplace. If you do not react favourably to his declaration of adoration or if you say one thing hurtful, it'll pain him in a very manner that nothing else might. a person must feel terribly secure in his relationship before he'll be able to speak that he loves you. Pay shut Attention to His Actions instead of His Words So much are often gained from extremely paying shut attention to however your man acts once he is around you. There area unit sure behavior patterns that synchronise with a person UN agency is actually and head over heels in love. you'll believe that he isn't infatuated unless he says the words, however do not discount however he treats you. For a person UN agency is battling gap himself up to the purpose wherever he will so feel terribly vulnerable, his actions will provide you with nice insight into what's in his heart. A telling example is that the man UN agency rushes through his day so he will pay the maximum amount time as doable with the girl he adores. Nothing matters quite the maximum amount to him as seeing her smiling face at the tip of his workday. identical is true of the person UN agency sends many text messages or emails throughout the day. His mind is clearly on the girl he cares for. Any little gestures like this could be viewed for what they're and that is a powerful sign that his heart is targeted on the girl in his life. See His Commitment to You as a signal of what is in His Heart If a person has stopped qualitative analysis alternative ladies and his focus is often simply on you, he is smitten. Men area unit ill-famed for desperate to play the sector. Once a person stops wanting, brooding about and seeing alternative ladies you ought to note of that. He might not have aforesaid that he loves you outright however the very fact that he is lost interest in alternative engaging ladies speaks volumes concerning however he views you. This is particularly clear if he is steered {that you|that you simply|that you simply} do not see alternative guys or that you simply 2 just date solely. If he will mention this, it clearly means he desires you to himself which usually contains a ton additional to try to to with a man's heart than his ego. A man infatuated desires to draw a good circle round the girl UN agency is that the center of his world. He does not need the threat of the other men on the horizon and he does not have eyes for the other ladies either. His focus is obvious and he'll raise you to concentrate on him too. Be cautious of a person UN agency does not appear Connected showing emotion to You As much as you wish to hope that he will love you, albeit he has nonetheless to mention it, you are doing have to be compelled to be aware of the very fact that his reluctance to specific it's supported the very fact that he simply does not feel it. If you have told your man that you simply love him and you are met with dead silence, or he alters the topic terribly quickly, it is easy to leap to the idea that he is not infatuated and simply is incredibly uncomfortable talking concerning the topic in any respect. Some men can exerting at avoiding any discussion concerning feelings. they will say things like, "I'm not prepared for a heavy relationship nonetheless, " or "love is overrated." If your guy has expressed similar sentiments to you, you have got each right to be discouraged by that. he is telling you, {in a|during a|in an exceedingly|in a terribly} very roundabout and non-compassionate manner that he is simply not feeling identical belongings you area unit. It's up to you to see whether or not or not you wish to still invest yourself in a very relationship like this. Granted, over time his position could amendment and he could decide that he will so love you. maybe alittle of your time apart, as in a very short relationship "break" may facilitate him see the sunshine. there is a likelihood it will not although. Just bear in mind that each one men area unit totally different and albeit some area unit fast to mention those 3 important words, alternative men simply cannot fathom voice communication, "I love you," to any girl unless they are on the verge of proposing to her. It's up to you to decipher your man's actions and browse between the limes to actually see what is in his heart. 

How to Attract Virgin Beside You | Love Potion


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There is a dream girl in every man’s life that he wishes to be involved and he always seeks around to see the image that he dreamed in is lifetime. However, what happens when he meets the ideal one? Most of the time the boys try to get attraction of the girls in various ways, some may try to be playful and humor while some may approach with very serious characteristic.
 There are some tips that we can provide to attract a beautiful virgin beside you and start a relationship.  If you see her at once, it is important not to get excited and just smile with her if she sees you. Be on your feet and do not try to act fake that will result she understand as a fool. Be in originally whom you are and talk to her straightforward if she sees you and this will not be easy. However, if you just leave without talking to her she may think you are one of shy jerk.  Therefore, it is necessary to be straight forward while not be so hurry. You need to have proper dress too. Whether it is casual or smart you need to dress properly. Girls are very attractive to people who dresses properly.  Be care full always with your body smell. You need to have good shower daily and better use good Durant that certainly she will remember you with that smell of the Durant.
Just always, try to tease her that she will also feel normal when talking apart from just uttering anything that reminds. There may be many others who follow her and you may be one of them. Therefore you need to have little specialty that she can see than others. By that way, she will also try to listen to you apart from moving away from you. Try to tell her something about yourself, but do not make it feel like a bragging to her. By this way, you can have some information about her too, especially about her interests.
Do not try to push yourself very hard that girls can sense that so easily. Just be natural and normal when you are talking and remember not to buy anything such like drink when you meet her for the first time since it will not be attractive at all. It will show you like you are needy and just gives you minus marks from the girl.

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